5 Loving Things You Can SAY to Your Man at Valentine’s

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Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! Women can get in on the fun too! Here are 5 (five) loving things you can say to your man at Valentine's.
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Valentine’s Day is just around the corner!

And, although it is typically that day when men do nice things for the women in their lives, we women can get in on the fun as well.

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! And, although it is typically that day when men do nice things for the women in their lives, we women can get in on the fun as well. Click To Tweet

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! Women can get in on the fun too! Here are 5 (five) loving things you can say to your man at Valentine's.

5 Loving Things You Can SAY to Your Man at Valentine’s

You may celebrate with fancy dinners, cards, and candy. 

Or, you may be the type that buys your man a new shirt or golf balls or a new fishing rod.

Whether you purchase a gift or not, you can show great honor to your man by telling him how much you appreciate him.

Men LOVE to hear positive and affirming words from the women in their lives! Click To Tweet

You can give him the gift of words this year for Valentine’s. 

Kind words can be written in a love note or a Hallmark card. You can write little notes on index cards or sticky notes.

You can even take out your favorite lipstick and write him a sweet note on the bathroom mirror!

And, you can open your mouth and SAY some kind words to that man of yours as well.

What can you say (or write)?

Here are 5 Loving Things You Can SAY to Your Man at Valentine’s

Here are 5 Loving Things You Can SAY to Your Man at Valentine's Click To Tweet

1} I Respect You!

Here’s an example:

“As a man, as a person, as a dad, as a husband, as you are – I respect and admire you. Even after all of these years, I still respect you.”

2} I Appreciate You as a Man!

Here’s an example:

“I appreciate you and who you are as a man of integrity. I am so grateful for who you are. I am thankful that I am your wife/girlfriend.” 

3} I Appreciate What You Do!

Here’s an example:

“I am thankful for all that you do for us – for working hard, for giving your best, and for providing for us as you do.”

You can add your own list of what you are thankful for!

4} I Love You!

Yes! They like to hear it too!

5) I Think You Are the Best, and I Would Choose You if I had it to do All Over Again!

That’s it!

I’ve given you great ammunition for Valentine’s Day!

Now, plan your attack on that man with good words.

Speak kind words to him, say good words about him, and write some good words to him.

I think you’ll find that your man will LOVE these words of affirmation – especially coming from you.

And, what better time to speak kind words than at Valentine’s! 

Proverbs 16:24 puts it this way,

“Kind words are like honey; they are easy to accept and good for your health.”

Proverbs 16:24 puts it this way, Kind words are like honey; they are easy to accept and good for your health. Click To Tweet

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! Women can get in on the fun too! Here are 5 (five) loving things you can say to your man at Valentine's.

So, what do you think?

~ Does your man like to hear affirming words from you?

~ How have you seen your words impact him for good?

~ What are you doing for your man for Valentine’s this year?

I always enjoy hearing from you!

*This post is adapted from an earlier post I wrote called, “5 Things Every Man Needs to Hear.”

You can read that post HERE. 

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31 Comments

  2. I love this! Yes, my man appreciates words of encouragement. Thank you for sharing these great ideas, Melanie. I hope you have a wonderful day!

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  3. Giving the gift of our words at Valentines, I love it. Thank you for your positive encouragement and hopeful words. Our marriages could all benefit from following this example.

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  4. I’m a great believer in affirming my husband as often as possible, not just on Valentine’s Day. As you suggested, Melanie, I always write something personal in any card I give, letting Danny know just how much I love and need him for the wonderful person he is. Blessings!

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    • Hey Martha,
      I love hearing that you write your man sweet notes. I know he must love these!
      Sounds like you are an amazing wife!
      Thank you for your kind words today.
      You bless me~
      Melanie

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    • Thanks, Holly, for stopping by…
      It does our husbands much good to hear those kind words, doesn’t it!
      I didn’t make it over today, but I hope to drop in tomorrow!
      Blessings,
      Melanie

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  7. Yes, yes, yes!! I love this so much. As a young bride, on year three of marriage, I could always use this reminder and encouragement. I sometimes get too caught up in nagging and mindless disagreements to show my husband just how much I love and respect him. Thank you for this!

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    • Hey Kelsie,
      Thanks for stopping by today and leaving a good word!
      And, keep on encouraging that man of yours! He may aggravate you to death, but he needs your affirmation!
      You are laying the groundwork for the future!
      Praying for you to enjoy sweetness in your marriage!
      Blessings,
      Melanie

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  8. I love this Melanie! Yes, there are some wonderful things we can (and should) say to our husbands. “I appreciate what you do” is so important. So often, I can vocalize what I need but I don’t say enough of what I appreciate.

    Thanks for sharing (and for linking up to the #SHINEbloghop).

    Wishing you a lovely day.
    xoxo

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  9. I just did a post on the 5 Love Languages. My husband’s love language is words of affirmation, so I know he appreciates hearing all these things!

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  13. You would think this comes easy for many, but it really doesn’t. I tend to say #3 to my husband a lot, but have to work on the others more. I think after being married for so long, you just assume they know these, but they need to hear them occasionally too as we do. Thanks for the reminder Melanie.

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    • Hey Michelle,
      It does seem like some words are much easier to say than others. I have to work on these myself!
      Thanks for stopping by to leave a good word today~
      You bless me,
      Melanie

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  14. My husband loves to hear all those kind words! I sure love that verse too, “Kind words are like honey!” Wow, so true!

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  15. Using this as a guide to write my card as well, Melanie. Simple truths that too often go unsaid, and I can’t think of a better time to say them. Thanks for the encouragement!

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