How Can We Raise Godly Children in this Ungodly World?

We’re back again today with another wonderful post in the Summer Sizzle Series!

Teaming up with some of my very favorite blogging friends, we are offering a series that Summer Sizzle Serieswe are calling, “Summer Sizzle.” 

Each week, I’ll be sharing the best articles from several amazing women that I personally know, pray for, do ministry with, and dearly love.

Today, you get to meet two of my favorite bloggers – Lori Schumaker and Aimee Imbeau. They are collaborating in this article to share some wonderful parenting truths.

I hope and pray you will be greatly encouraged!

“If your friend told you to jump off the bridge, would you do it?”

I am going to make a bold guess and claim almost every one of you reading this right now has heard this line or one similar to it at one point in your life. By a parent, a teacher, or some other caregiver of some sort. Am I right?

Now I am going to take it one step further.

How many of you have found yourself saying that same line to your own children at some point?

I am guessing that number is pretty high, as well!

How Can We Raise Godly Children in this Ungodly World?

How Can We Raise Godly Children in this Ungodly World?

But it confuses me.

Although we are a society taught to not follow every “brilliant” idea that comes along, somehow we still have become a society of Bandwagon Followers!

It seems that whatever becomes the latest and greatest or most popular, we latch on and run with it!

Don’t get me wrong. I love that the latest and greatest have brought back retro style home decor. And friends, I really love leggings, loose over-sized shirts, curly hair, and joggers (aka sweatpants).

However, that doesn’t mean they are all the best ideas for each of us.

Let me go a little deeper with this. Into parenting. The single most important responsibility of our lifetime.

Breastfeeding, Formula, Ferber Method, Dr. Sears, No-Tears, Co-sleeping, Crib sleeping, disposable diapers, cloth diapers, pre-school, home school, public school, private school, sports, no sports, family dinner, spanking, no spanking.

Before our children utter their first cry, we have been offered endless theories which at one time or another have been the latest and greatest bandwagon in parenting.

It’s overwhelming. As parents, we begin to feel the weight of the world on our shoulders. Even when we make a decision, we let thoughts of it being the wrong decision run rampant in our minds.

I’m right there with you! I’ve run this hamster wheel round and round.

However, I am also convicted God did not design parenthood to be this way.

I believe He designed each of us as uniquely wonderful. And likewise gave us each specific children that are equally as uniquely wonderful! It was no mistake or random placement. We were each designed for the specific child He gave us to parent while here on Earth. (I wrote more about this here)

My friend, Aimee Imbeau who blogs over at A Work of Grace, recently wrote a book titled Raising Godly Children. Her book is filled with great strategies and resources to help you raise up your child to love and follow God.

Aimee is a homeschooling Mom. I am not. I have an Education Degree and have taught all ages – from Elementary through College. But I have not formally educated my children at home. And in all likelihood, will not.

One would think because Aimee’s book is written from the perspective of a Homeschooling Mom with tips targeted toward the Homeschooling Mom, I would not have much to appreciate or glean from her advice.

But here is why that couldn’t be further from the truth. Aimee’s heart is to follow hard after Jesus and to raise children who follow just as hard after Him.

And when we follow hard after Jesus, we don’t follow bandwagons, we follow Him. We listen to Him. We seek out His guidance.

Ultimately, we parent specifically to the children with whom He so lovingly blessed us.

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you -Psalm 32:8

In her book, Aimee urges us to listen for His call because any methodology could become our idol if we aren’t careful.

She says, “When we commit to riding one of those wagons (or multiple wagons), we end up following these man-made ordinances for our lives (and perhaps shun those who disagree and don’t follow along) and we aren’t able to hear the voice of God and understand HIS will for our lives. We are so consumed by these philosophies that they become idols and they distract us from what God wants for us.”

Indeed, as Christians, I think we need to be very careful in discerning the differences between man-made ordinances and God-made ordinances.

In order to do this, we must follow hard after Jesus, know His Word, and communicate through prayer with an unceasing tenacity.

I want to leave you with a list of 7 Suggestions for Raising Your Children God’s Way.

These are not dependent upon the current bandwagon. They are dependent upon God’s Word. And God’s Word is a lifetime bandwagon worth jumping on!

First…  Build your faith into everyday moments.

Take advantage of life and make them teachable moments that point to the power of Jesus.

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Use the time for open conversation.

“Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up.”

Deuteronomy 6:7 NLT

Second…  Bring every matter back to the condition of your child’s heart.

Disobedience? Unkind words? Poor choices?

They are all matters of the heart. It’s not simply about consequences.

Get to the matter of the heart.

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

Proverbs 4:23 NLT 

Third…   Model a life of relationship with Christ.

You cannot teach your children what you yourself do not model yourself.

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Your life must be a living testimony.

“And you yourself must be an example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching.”

Titus 2:7 NLT

Fourth…   Pray with your children.

“One day Jesus told his disciples a story to show that they should always pray and never give up.”

Luke 18:1 NLT

Fifth…   Study His Word with your children.

“I could have no greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth.”

3 John:4 NLT

Sixth…   Worship Him with all your heart.

Give your children the opportunity to witness and participate in this.

“All the earth worships you and sings praises to you; they sing praises to your name.” 

Psalm 66:4 ESV

Seventh…  Listen to Him.

When you study, pray, and worship, your child will learn to hear Him as well.

Together you will stay off the man-made bandwagons and stay on the God-made one.

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.”

John 10:27 ESV

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Dear Father, Parenting is tough. So tough. But Lord, You have created us each with detailed intricacy knowing intimately our individual burdens and needs. And You have equipped us specifically to parent each of the children we have been given. Thank You for giving us tools to ease the burden of doubt, insecurity, overwhelm, and worry. Thank You for blessing us with these precious lives.

Lord, I ask You to fill each of us with Your strength, wisdom, compassion, and love. Let us see our children through Your eyes and let us recognize man-made ordinances that may not be the correct ones for our children. Our children are beautiful creations and You know how desperately we desire to be the parent You ask us to be. Thank You for filling our gaps when we falter in lighting the path to raising our children. In Your precious and Holy Name, we pray. Amen.

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About the Author:

Lori is an encourager at heart. She has spent her life learning of the hope and victory available when we embrace our identity in Christ. Today, when she isn’t busy being a wife and Mom to her three children, she teaches, ministers, coaches, speaks and writes to share that hope with others.

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10 thoughts on “How Can We Raise Godly Children in this Ungodly World?

  1. Mothering can be overwhelming at times, but these truth speak volumes about how we ought to raise our children in this ungodly world.

    Spending time with the Lord, and reading His Word is the foundation and then modelling Christ in front of our children is one of the best way.

    Let us pray for all the Christian mothers to raise children for His Kingdom.

    Thank you Lori, and Melanie

    Blessings to the both of you 🙂


    1. Amen, Diana.
      And, you are so right – to spend time with the Lord and read His Word is the best place to start and to model Christ.
      It sounds like you are a great mom!
      Blessings to you,

  2. Dear Lori and Melanie,

    Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom…..may I share a part of my struggle? My children are entering their tweens and for a few years while they were growing I jumped on the band wagon of nutrition, cutting out certain foods because research has said you can have abundant health and energy by doing this, and raising toddlers close in age I felt I needed all the extra energy I could get (instead of realizing where my strength came from)….back then my walk with the Lord was still new. As I have grown with Him and studied His Word I have found scriptures namely Romans 14 and 1 Timothy 4:1-5 which lead me to think that the current bandwagons around nutrition are not scriptural. My struggle is I have walked the nutrition walk and do feel great and see the benefits so struggle to let all this knowledge go and go back to eating all that God has given….do you understand where I am coming from? I sometimes wish I didnt have that knowledge and just trusted that how I ate was fine….and knew then that if I leaned in more on Him He would supply all my needs.
    I look forward to your reply.

    1. Hey Tracey,

      Thanks for sharing your heart and your struggle. It is hard sometimes to know what is best and what is right.

      And, food/nutrition are such “hot” buttons right now.

      Could I suggest that you make this a real matter of prayer? I think of James 1:5, “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking.” So, ask God what to do.

      When I am torn between what is good and what is best for my family and for myself, I will really seek out the Lord in prayer. I’ll ask Him to make me wise beyond my years and lead me so clearly.

      He cares about you and what matters to your heart. So, talk it over with Him. Ask Him to make you the wisest mom, cook, shopper, nutritionist, and woman! I believe He will show you what is best for your family in this matter. He cares!!

      Additionally, seek out the counsel of 1-2 older women that know and love you personally. Ask them to pray with you on these matters and to share their wisdom with you. Invite them to speak truth into your life.

      One other note… I believe there is balance in all of the things God created. In the area of eating, that is always my goal – a healthy balance.

      Hope this helped a little! Keep me posted on what you decide!


      1. HI Melanie,

        Thank you so much for your reply…..I am going to keep praying and waiting for His answer and will keep you posted……

        Thank you again for an uplifting blog……

  3. Dear Lori and Melanie,
    Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom as one’s who walked right ahead of us. As young mothers who are quite new to the job we are overwhelmed and confused about what’s best. It’s a great reminder of where our attention should be. Christ. We will never be in doubt. In Him all things hold together. May God bless you always.

    1. Thank you, Piyumi!
      Mothering can be so overwhelming, but we can seek to keep our eyes fixed on Jesus. That’s the best advice in the world!
      So appreciate you stopping by to leave a good word.
      Blessings to you,

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