How to Make Christmas more FOCUSED on Jesus

“Jesus is the reason for the season.” 

We hear that phrase everywhere, don’t we?

Yet, so often, we rush our way through the holiday season with little thought about Jesus, the gift of His life, or the significance of His love.

The wise men responded in immediate worship to the King.

Matthew 2:10-11 says, “When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.”

We are called to “Ascribe to the Lord the glory due to his name; worship the LORD in the splendor of holiness,” as it says in Psalm 29:2.

I don’t mean to cover you with guilt or shame.

In fact, I hope to do the exact opposite!

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How to Make Christmas about Jesus

Remembering Christ does take diligence and awareness.

The season is busy, fast, and fun! So, set aside time now to develop meaningful traditions for the entire family.

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8 Ways to Make Your Christmas about Jesus:

First – Choose to give one less gift to everyone in the family & put the extra money toward fulfilling a need. 

There are many companies that offer the opportunity to fulfill a need in this way. Compassion and World Vision (link these ministries to their respective websites: & come to mind.

This type of tradition shows thoughtfulness, sacrifice, and love. Gospel love will flow through your family. What a meaningful tradition!

Second –  Write a Christmas letter instead of sending Christmas cards (or include a letter with your card).

At the end of the letter, include a paragraph about the gospel, or a list of each family member’s favorite Scripture passage.

Encouraging others to open the Bible and read about the Christmas story for themselves points them directly to Christ. This will also allow quiet reflection of your own heart as you prepare the letter to send to family and friends.

Third – Celebrate Jesus with an actual cake.

Before eating it, have each family member pray out loud with thanksgiving to Jesus for the gift of his life and it’s meaning.

Oftentimes we bake a cake – I’ve heard that this is a common tradition!

However, rarely do we take the time to think about the meaning of the cake before eating it. Try it this year and encourage conversation among your little ones about Jesus’ birthday and its meaning for our lives.

Fourth – Play Christian Christmas music throughout the day.

Let each family member pick a favorite that they turn up real loud for the whole house to hear.

Sing along in your head, or out loud. Dance with your kiddos. Enjoy the day for what it really is – a celebration of Jesus!

What better way than blasting praise music throughout a warm house that smells like cookies?

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Fifth – Take a walk through your neighborhood. (Don’t forget the hot cocoa!)

If you run into friends and neighbors, ask if you can pray for their holiday. Then, follow through as a family.

This allows others to be reminded of Jesus and His power during the holiday season. It also models healthy prayer and fellowship to your children who might be watching.

Sixth – Add a special stocking to the fireplace.

Give each family member $5-10 depending on your budget and let him or her buy fun goodies to put into the stocking. Deliver the stocking to someone in need on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day.

This is a practical way to show kiddos the beauty of gift giving – and the fun that it can be! You might also add some handwritten Bible verses, or even a Bible, to the stocking.

Seventh – If you have a fireplace, make a Christmas Eve fire and sit around with hot cocoa.

Share stories of God’s faithfulness over the past year. Or, for younger children, read some stories from a children’s Bible storybook.

Orient your mind to the true meaning of Christmas the night before with a cozy celebration of God’s goodness. Wake up with stories of His faithfulness fresh on your mind.

Share stories of God’s faithfulness over the past year. Or, for younger children, read some stories from a children’s Bible storybook. Click To Tweet

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Eighth – Before the stockings are opened or the gifts unwrapped before breakfast starts cooking or coffee is brewed before anything happens on Christmas morning – start the day with family prayer. 

What a way to align the mind with the true meaning of Christmas!

We’re quick to the gifts and the breakfast traditions, but we don’t seem to be as quick to pray or study the Bible. Try something different this year and start with prayer. You could even look up some Scripture passages to include in your prayer that specifically praises Jesus for the gift of His life.

Dear readers, I am not saying that we must forego the secular traditions, or wait until noon to open the first gift.

Rather, I am suggesting that we do some small things to include Jesus in each part of our day.

Our lives have purpose and meaning because of His gift of love on the cross. This means our holiday has great meaning, too.

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Remind yourself of that in big and small ways this holiday, especially in the traditions you choose.

What a wonderful list of suggestions for keeping Christ at the center of your Christmas traditions, Alison!

We really appreciate you taking the time to stop by and share your ideas with us today! You have blessed us!

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square-headshot-brightAlison is a wife, blogger, and Jesus-follower growing in grace and truth daily. She loves coffee in the morning, experimenting in the kitchen, camping with her husband, and reading in a hammock just about anywhere.

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6 thoughts on “How to Make Christmas more FOCUSED on Jesus

  1. Such great ideas Alison! We have small kids, and every year I make a special Christmas cake and we sing “Happy Birthday” to Jesus–they love it! We also started listening to Christmas music already. It’s one of my favorite traditions of the season!

    1. Thank you, Christin!
      I think Alison has shared some wonderful ideas as well. Thank you for sharing yours too!
      Hope you have a blessed day and a sweet holiday season!

  2. Thank you, Alison, for sharing such a practical and positive Christmas post today!
    Your ideas and suggestions are wonderful and easy to do. I hope many will take your words to heart and try out some of these ways to keep Christ at the center of the holidays!
    You are a blessing.
    Sure am grateful for you~

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